{"id":4567,"date":"2017-03-09T09:05:37","date_gmt":"2017-03-09T13:05:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ata-divisions.org\/ID\/?p=4567"},"modified":"2018-11-05T18:31:37","modified_gmt":"2018-11-05T22:31:37","slug":"im-not-perfect-in-every-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ata-divisions.org\/ID\/im-not-perfect-in-every-way\/","title":{"rendered":"What do you mean I&#8217;m not perfect in every way?!?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h5><strong>By Roberta Barroca<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Well, she\u2019s at it again! Bringing levity\u00a0with serious subjects and making us laugh\u2026 at ourselves mainly. Totally relatable. Another fun article from Roberta, on a topic that will undoubtedly give you pause, maybe teach you something, and definitely elicit a chuckle or two. Laughter is the best medicine, after all, and I know that I\u2019m healthier for it! Enjoy!<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Lorena Ortiz Schneider,\u00a0e-Voice Editor<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"imgbox alignright wp-image-4570 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ata-divisions.org\/ID\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/dreamstime_m_67433856.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"[woman looking confused]\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/>\u201cI don\u2019t have to listen to that nonsense!\u201d says my ego every time someone criticizes me.\u00a0 \u201cThey just want to bring me down, they envy my brilliance.\u00a0 My parents think I\u2019m the most awesome-est person alive.\u00a0 Yes, that\u2019s how superlative I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then reason kicks in and asks: \u201cWhat if they\u2019re right?\u00a0 What if there really are areas you need to improve?\u00a0 Shouldn\u2019t you work on those?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I guess being criticized is not easy for any of us. \u00a0But I do believe we should find a healthy balance in being open to other people\u2019s observations and yet immune to them at the same time.\u00a0 Confusing?\u00a0 Tell me about it!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYo, crazy lady, what does that have to do with interpreting?`\u201d shouts my own relentless inner critic.<\/p>\n<div class=\"perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-left pullquote-border-placement-right\" style=\"border-color:#4d648d !important;font-size:17px !important;\"><blockquote><p style=\"font-size:17px !important;\"><em>I guess being criticized is not easy for any of us<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/div>\n<p>Well\u2026as interpreters we are very exposed, and therefore subject to criticism.\u00a0 In consecutive, we normally stand in front of a crowd that usually has a better mastery of the subject than we do. \u00a0In simultaneous, although we are somewhat hidden, our voice is reaching our listeners like a whisper from a very close friend (or enemy, if you sound like nails on a chalkboard).\u00a0 So don\u2019t go assuming the booth is a warm, cozy womb that protects us from the outer world\u2014it really doesn\u2019t.\u00a0 You were pushed out of your mom\u2019s womb a long time ago.\u00a0 Get over it. \u00a0The truth is that our performance, behavior and even our clothing are analyzed by our clients, listeners and peers.\u00a0 So given that being judged is part of our profession, we need to handle it well.<\/p>\n<p>When receiving positive feedback, it\u2019s important not to get conceited or complacent.\u00a0 When it\u2019s negative, we must be careful not to freeze like a deer in the headlights.\u00a0 It\u2019s also a good idea to take criticism with a grain of salt.\u00a0 Not all of it is honest and selfless.<\/p>\n<div class=\"perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left\" style=\"border-color:#4d648d !important;font-size:17px !important;\"><blockquote><p style=\"font-size:17px !important;\"><em>When receiving positive feedback, it\u2019s important not to get conceited or complacent<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/div>\n<p>After giving this topic a lot of thought lately, I have come up with a highly scientific method (yeah, right) to distinguish genuine feedback from flattery or projection, or even pure BS.\u00a0 Here it goes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>When receiving feedback, try not to react.\u00a0 Listen carefully and think about the matter for as long as possible.\u00a0 After all, if the person does have a point, you should move those lazy buttocks of yours and pursue self-improvement.<\/li>\n<li>Observe if the person giving the feedback has reasonable opinions about different topics.\u00a0 Never trust those who only criticize.\u00a0 Never trust those who only compliment you, either.\u00a0 Unless it\u2019s your dog.\u00a0 Your dog is allowed to see you as a flawless being.<\/li>\n<li>As for fellow interpreters, pay attention to the energy of the relationship.\u00a0 Does it reflect teamwork or competition?\u00a0 If it\u2019s the latter, disregard the negative feedback.\u00a0 If it\u2019s the former, embrace it.\u00a0 Believe it or not, it\u2019s possible to make good friends who also happen to be interpreters.\u00a0 (oooohhhh\u2026that was mean!)<\/li>\n<li>When it comes to clients, I tend to act based on the premise that they\u2019re always right, because without them, you\u2019re out of business.<\/li>\n<li>And last but not least, as in any area of your life, beware of Know-It-Alls.\u00a0 They tend to point fingers at other people just for the fun of it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As I approach the end of my article, I realize that this is a sensitive subject and I am thus putting myself once again on the stage of vulnerability.\u00a0 Some people might read it and totally relate to it, while others might hate it and think I\u2019m a whiny little witch (there\u2019s something wrong with the \u201cB\u201d on my keyboard\u2026).\u00a0 And that\u2019s ok.\u00a0 I\u2019d rather suffer the consequences of my actions than be paralyzed by the heavy hand of criticism.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing and BE NOTHING&#8221; (author unknown).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"circular-image-150\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4297\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ata-divisions.org\/ID\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/RobertaBarroca.jpeg?resize=150%2C150&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"[Roberta Barroca]\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/div>\n<p><strong>Roberta Barroca\u00a0<\/strong>is a journalist, translator and passionate English&lt;&gt;Brazilian Portuguese conference interpreter. Proud ATA and AIIC member. Gemini with Virgo rising. 36 years old. Favorite expression: &#8220;Thank you Universe!&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 40px; font-size: .8em;\">Image:\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/vladimirfloyd_info\" target=\"_blank\">Vladimirfloyd<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Dreamstime.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, she\u2019s at it again! Bringing levity with serious subjects and making us laugh\u2026 at ourselves mainly. Totally relatable. Another fun article from Roberta, on a topic that will undoubtedly give you pause, maybe teach you something, and definitely elicit a chuckle or two. 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